The best answer is to remain silent and to contact and experienced criminal defense lawyer who handles cases for people accused with committing a sexually related crime. Your initial reaction will always be to speak to your accuser or the police.  One word, out of context, can be disastrous for you. Law enforcement will often attempt to have your accuser make a controlled phone call or start a conversation via text or social media in the hope that you make admissions against yourself or confirm your relationship. Even simple apologies are used as evidence of wrong doing. While it may seem contrary to your thought process, keeping quiet and remaining silent is often the best advice.